Dr. Silver's Blog

November 2009

COMMUNICATION
I believe communication in all relationships is very important, when people can talk they can sort out anything.  Sometimes it is enough for people to talk together, but sometimes a professional is needed as a mediator.  When people don't talk, and they close the door to communication, only pain can follow. Life is tough enough and knowing that the people in your life will listen to you is the way to feeling peace.
There are times in life that we may feel that not talking or saying how we feel will hurt the other person.  It doesn't matter.  Truth is important in all relationships. Give the people in your life the benefit of the doubt.  They can take it.
If you feel guilty for something.  Tell that person.  Trust in your friendship, your love. 
Forgiveness is only possible when truth is told. We all make mistakes and sometimes we do things when we really don't mean to do them.
We may be frustrated, or feeling insecure.  It doesn't matter why communication stopped. 

Bring it back.  Be brave. With communication all things are possible.

Dr. Silver

 

SEPTEMBER 2009

"Make every thought, every fact, that comes into your mind pay you a profit. Make it work and produce for you. Think of things not as they are but as they might be."

-Robert Collier

When you think of this statement it will help you to remember that your mind is a computer. It follows the directions you give it. If you do not take control, it will run on its own.

To take changes in your life and health, it starts with your desire and willingness to do that. Stop saying defeating words to yourself. Stop talking yourself out of what you want.

Take time every day to visualize the way you want things to be. This will be the new instructions.

By spending your time this way you will benefit. Send out in visual pictures the things you want. If you want a new relationship, picture yourself in one happy. If you ned more money picture yourself having the things the money will buy you. If you want to stop a negative habit, see yourself free of this behavior.

If you do this everyday you will see your life moving in that direction.

AUGUST 2009

IN THESE DIFFICULT TIMES
I hear a lot of stories everyday about people having trouble with finances and relationships.  It is a very difficult time we are in as a society.
Its a time where we have to make decisions of whether we are going to work together or every one out for themselves.  We grew up to believe that if we did what we dreamed about doing we could be successful.  But that is not the state of our world.  People are being forced to do things that they don't want to do just to make it today.. 

Most new age books talk about visualizing your dream to manifest what you want.  I personally think in today's time, it is a little different.  Work with the people who care about you and find ways for everyone to succeed.  Working together is the way we are all going to make it through this hard economy.

Sometimes we may have to sell things that we have to make money.  But we musn't see this as a bad thing. Just changes and making choices.
We have been a society that has always believed we NEEDED STUFF.  But what do we need really?

Look at your individual situation from the perspective, do I really need this anymore, why??? It's time to get rid off.

Some of my friends are being very creative, they are fixing their old furniture, having garage sales, selling stuff that's been sitting around.
Do what you have to do.  You are not failing.  You are merely changing your priorities. You may realize that STUFF doesn't really make you happy, and you will have more pleasure by helping out people less fortunate than yourselves.  This will fill your soul.  Your true self.

Dr. Silver

 

JULY 2009

DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES
 
We all have to deal with people in our life that challenge us to remain nice.  I  see these times as spiritual tests.
Some people just choose to be nasty.  The best thing to do is to not stoop down to their level.  If you can stay away from them, I find that to be best, you don't need to take in their negative energy.  If that is impossible, just remember who you are.  You are a special spiritual being and you know that you have done nothing wrong to deserve their wrath.  Stand strong in  your own integrity and positive energy.  Refuse to get caught up in a nasty interaction.  State your case and move away.  I am not saying it will be easy, but it is worth it.
 
Just remember that another person is not more powerful than you.  No matter what they may try to make you believe.  Do not allow someone else to dictate, scare or intimidate you, when you know you are in the right.  We are all entitled to live happy, healthy and successful lives.
Its important to have courage in your life, courage to know that you deserve to do and be the best and kindest person you can be, without allowing someone else to rob you of your peace. 
 
Ways to cope:
1. Take walks out in nature, in the park, at the lake, ocean wherever you can be surrounded by nature.  Take them often.
2. Listen to positive uplifting music.  Our energy and outlook can really improve with the right music.
3.  Talk to a friend.  Ask her to just listen.
4. Keep journals, even if you throw them away, it is very powerful to write your feelings down and get them out of you.
5. Soak in the tub
 
Happy Days,
 
Dr. Silver

May 2009

I'd like to talk about Numerology: the magic of understanding yourself through the study of numbers. Life has meanings.

May is a 5 month. Do you feel your mind scattering all over the place? Are you finding it hard to pinpoint one thing in your life to do?

You can blame the 5 vibration of May.

But it is also the month of opportunity, expansion and mental and or physical travel.

We can feel summer around the corner. Warmth and peace.

I ask that we all try to find that warmth inside.

Blessings,

Dr. Silver

April 2009

Zig Ziglar once said, “It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action, and discipline that enabled us to follow through.”

Awareness

Do we dream about what can happen in our life? Do we look at ourselves?

Are we doing and using all that is available to us?

Is success just around the corner?

There are times in our life that we have to face how things really are. But instead of running from them, feeling defeated, STOP, look at them and then COMMIT to making the best out of it.

Key - "Learning"

Doing the things that will make you happy. Put food on your table and roof over your head. They can be the same but you might have to be willing to grow and change.

Blessings,

Dr. Sheree Silver, Ph.D.

March 2009

March came in like a lion. During the 100th "Wife Swap" episode I did a past life regression on scientist Richard Heene from Colorado, and I thought I'd talk the time to talk about them a little bit more. I'm aware that for a lot of you this is a "different" topic.

I have been a hypnotherapist since 1986 and I have done hundreds of regressions. During a regression the person is taken under hypnosis. They will hear everything going on, their body will be very present in the room. The part of them that travels back is their mind. The same way as you may think about your childhood, but still be in the now.

Most of the lives people describe are very normal. Sometimes people are different genders. A lot of times people that they see are people they have known in this lifetime. They may look different but they have the same energy.

I have found that when someone dies whether its from an accident or health problems, they often come back with similar issues in this lifetime. I had one client that died from a very serious car accident in a past life where she hit her head. In this life she has suffered from headaches since childhood.

In this case, a past life becomes a form of therapy where the person can now let go of that lifetime experience and heal themselves.

Not all our life situations are based on this lifetime. Often the people we meet and form deep relationships with are people we have known before.

Blessings,

Dr. Silver

February 2009

February is a big month for us. We were chosen to be the family for the 100th episode of Wife Swap, and it is very exciting...

Our family has already taped the episode and it will air Friday, the 13th of March. You can read the official press release at abc.com/wifeswap.

I am busy with Sam, my partner, writing a book on all our experiences since the first show aired. It is a very Metaphysical book, filled with signs and amazing coincidences. (Of course, as a Philosophy major in this field, I do not see life as coincidences. I see it as "Meant to be" experiences).

We have developed my site to be a portal and I would love everyone to post their questions and answers on our portals.

This is a very exciting time for this country, and even though by the news there is a lot of fear and uncertainty, I feel different about it. I see it as an opportunity. "Turning lemons into lemonade," as the saying goes.

Instead of fear, lets think change is good and risk is good. Seeing life this way can bring joy and happiness,

Many blessings,

Dr. Silver

JANUARY 2009

Welcome to my first online blog entry. I have kept journals since I was a young teenager in England, so I guess I shouldn't have too much trouble with this.

I personally am feeling very hopeful about 2009.

We have a new president, he is an 11 lifepath, and we are on 2009, which is an 11 year. 11 means teamwork, partnership; working together. And togetherness will be the focus for the new year.

Of course, we do have our own individual energy. But with the vibration around us, it will affect us.

There will be celebrations in the streets all over the world this year. People will learn to care about others worldwide.

For me, 2009 will mean, I believe, my dreams coming true. I feel very blessed right now; I feel protected.

I appreciate all the supporters of my work over the years.

January is a one month New Beginning. Start making your plans. If you have a habit you want to break, go to a hypnotherapist or send for a CD from us. I can make you personal CDs, or go to Shiloh's order page - we have lots of pre-recorded CDs.

I'd like to thank my son, Andrew, for making me a brand new website and this personal site. He is brilliant at 14.

I have two boys, and Sam, my soul mate. My other child, Justin, is about to be 12.

I have been a hypnotherapist since 1986. I became a psychic a few years later, after getting a reading at the SAGB in England, where I was told it was time. For many years, we had a building offering classes and lectures/workshops... we also had a store.

Yet eventually, due to the economy and financial struggles people are going through, it was not possible to continue that journey. Now we are moving Shiloh in a new direction. That's all I can say at this point, but I will keep everyone informed.